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give what I
don't want to give |
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sacrifice my
integrity to anyone |
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do more than
I have time to do |
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drain my
strength for others |
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listen to
unwise counsel |
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retain an
unfair relationship |
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be anyone
but exactly who I am
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conform to
unreasonable demands
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be one
hundred percent perfect
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follow the
crowd |
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submit to
overbearing conditions
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meekly let
life pass by me |
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telling all
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talking at
an intimate level on the first meeting
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falling in
love with anyone who reaches out to you
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being
overwhelmed by and preoccupied with a person
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acting on
first sexual impulse
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being sexual
for your partner, not your self
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going
against your personal values or rights to please
others |
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not noticing
when someone invades your boundaries
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accepting
gifts, food, touch, sex, or other offers that
you don't want |
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touching a
person without asking
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taking as
much as you can get for the sake of getting
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giving as
much as you can give for the sake of giving
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allowing
someone to take as much as they can from you
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letting
others direct your live
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letting
others describe your reality
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letting
others define you |
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believing
others can anticipate your needs
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expecting
others to fill your needs automatically
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falling
apart so someone will take care of you
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self abuse
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sexual and
physical abuse |
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food abuse
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substance
abuse |
